Our Approach
Debra Whitson built this practice with a simple promise:
Make the complicated make sense. Find better ways for families to move forward.
From her beginnings as a special victims prosecutor to her pioneering work in family mediation and collaborative divorce, Debra has spent her life advocating for those navigating trauma, transition, and uncertainty. Her mission is to transform the divorce experience into one that is dignified, compassionate, and humane.
At WhitsonLaw, PLLC and Mediated Online Solutions, we believe families deserve more than legal representation — they deserve clarity, compassion, and a path toward lasting peace.
We don’t fuel conflict.
We don’t escalate drama.
We guide you toward resolution, dignity, and your next beginning.
Where Families Find Strength, Support, and a Clear Path Forward
Divorce and family transitions are among life’s most challenging moments. Our role is to help you move through them — not with fear, but with understanding and control.
Rooted in trauma-informed care and driven by decades of experience, we bring together strategic legal advocacy and holistic support to meet you where you are, emotionally and practically.
What We Stand For
1. Trauma-Informed, Child-Centered Advocacy
Your family’s well-being is our priority. We listen deeply, respond thoughtfully, and develop solutions that honor the emotional realities of your life — especially when children are involved.
We protect your peace so you can protect theirs.
2. Conflict-Conscious Legal Solutions — No Gasoline on the Fire
Your legal process shouldn’t make it worse.
We take a measured, solution-focused approach designed to minimize hostility, reduce emotional harm, and create pathways to resolution that feel stable and fair.
Whether through strategic negotiation, mediation, or litigation, when necessary, our goal is simple:
Help you move forward faster and healthier.
3. Story-Driven Family Law Representation
Every family has a story — and it deserves to be told fully and authentically.
With a foundation rooted in storytelling and advocacy, we ensure that judges, mediators, and professionals understand who you truly are, what matters to you, and what your children need.
We don’t reduce your life to a folder of documents.
We tell your story with clarity, compassion, and purpose.
4. Holistic Support Through a Curated Network of Family Law Professionals
That’s why we partner with a vetted network of financial advisors, parenting experts, therapists, mortgage professionals, career specialists, and more.
We don’t hand you a list of names.
We make warm introductions so you’re supported every step of the way.
This is divorce done differently. This is divorce done with care.
5. Efficient, Cost-Conscious Solutions That Respect Your Future
We help you avoid unnecessary battles and stay focused on real solutions.
Divorce is math — and emotion.
We help you manage both wisely.
Our goal:
Preserve your resources for your children, your healing, and your next chapter — not endless legal fees.
6. Modern, Accessible Family and Divorce Mediation & Virtual Services
READY FOR YOUR NEXT BEGINNING? CONTACT OUR NEW YORK FAMILY LAW FIRM TODAY!
Whether you’re considering divorce, navigating a child custody matter, or seeking a peaceful resolution outside of court, we’re here to support you with clarity, strategy, and unwavering care.
Schedule your consultation today with a family lawyer.
A better way forward starts here.
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(518) 412-4111